my marriage

It sucks no doubt. He wants to never be bothered and have a cooked meal and a clean home everyday and will offer no HELP! I about die every time I have to ask him for something. he is rude, he can get really mean and he on occasion has lost his temper completely. I sometimes wish I had the means to divorce him and not put up with him anymore, but it is rough and I dont think I can do that to my two little boys..... ehhhhh.